Keep Messages Short and Human
If your text doesn't look like something you'd send a friend, it's too stiff. Keep messages to 1-2 short sentences. Use natural, friendly language—"Hey," "Just wanted to check," "Quick question". End with an easy reply prompt using yes/no or A/B choices. Never send walls of text.
Here's what works: "Hey! This is Dr. Lee from XYZ Music. Quick question—are you still thinking about auditioning on sax this spring?”
Here's what doesn't: "Hello, we are reaching out to provide information about our audition process for the School of Music..."
Create the Feeling of Reciprocity
Students are more likely to reply when it feels like you're doing something for them. This taps into the psychological principle of reciprocity—when someone helps us, we naturally want to reciprocate by engaging.
Try phrasing like: "Let me check with my grad assistant to find that info for you" or "I just pulled a quick list of scholarship opportunities you might like" or "When I get back to my office, I'll send you some details about our jazz program". These phrases create the feeling of personalized effort, making students trust you and want to reply.
Match Content to Student Interests
Students are conditioned to ignore messages that aren't clearly relevant to their specific interests. Your outreach must reflect what you know about each student—their instrument, their academic interests, their concerns. When a trombone player sees content about "nailing your trombone audition" with their professor's photo, it creates rapport and dramatically increases engagement.